Every day, all day we’re inundated by emotional responses. Some of these are groovy, sweet emotions and some of these are lame, annoying emotions. (And sometimes all the lame emotions flood in at once, like when you’re on one of those customer service phone calls from hell. Just the worst.)
These little jabs of feeling? I like to think of them as emotional popcorn. Yep.
I really like popcorn. At least once a week, I make it on the stove the old-fashioned way: in a pan with salt and oil. It’s a pretty fun snack to eat, and it’s just as much fun to cook. The kernels heat up, the sizzling starts, and then anticipation builds until ping! pop!—the popping begins.
Emotions often come over us as quickly as a kernel of corn goes from inedible to fluffy goodness. Ping! Anger. Pop! Frustration. Ping! Anxiety. Ping! Pop! Pop! When we feel the emotions start to pop up, we get to make a choice: are we going to eat the popcorn?
Much of the practice of yoga centers on this idea—noticing that there IS actually space between provocation and reaction. You can feel an emotion (anger, for instance) and not eat that emotional popcorn. You can feel it and see it and choose not to engage it at the moment. The starting point is to be aware. To notice. To feel the emotion begin and then choose whether or not you’re going to shove it in your mouth. (Sometimes it’s just too damn tempting. Sometimes you eat a big bowl of popcorn, handful after handful. And that’s okay, too.)
But that space? That pause? That path between action and reaction? That comes from breathing while you move. From staying in a pose a smidge longer than your quads want you to. That comes from being present, even in challenging poses. And then really letting go in savasana. Your practice on the mat is a microcosm for your life.
So this week, whether you’re on your mat or on the phone call with Time Warner, just notice. Just notice the pop of emotion. And see what happens next.
Have 10 minutes? Do some yoga:
Simple Yoga Sequence for Waking Up the Body
- Begin on your hands and knees in Table Pose; play in Cat-Cow: move your spine and stretch your body, finding what feels good
- Slowly root through your feet and move to Downward Facing Dog; squirm around in this pose, and stay here for 5-10 breaths
- Move back to Table Pose
- Rest in Child’s Pose
- Move to standing and come to Mountain Pose
- Inhale, lift arms overhead; exhale, clasp your hands and lean to one side. Take 3 breaths. Inhale through center and exhale, lean to the other side. Take 3 more breaths. Inhale through center and exhale, release your arms to your side.
- Inhale, lift arms overhead; exhale, fold forward
- Inhale, lift halfway (hands can come to shins or higher; lengthen your spine); exhale, fold forward
- With your next inhalation return to Mountain Pose
- Inhale, step your left foot back and move to Warrior I; stay in Warrior I for 3-5 breaths
- Shift to Warrior II; stay in Warrior II for 3-5 breaths
- Return to Mountain Pose and repeat Warrior I and II, this time stepping your right foot back
- Return to Downward-Facing Dog and and move your spine again, stretching any places that still need to stretch, 5-10 breaths
- Rest in Child’s Pose or transition to Resting Pose (Savasana Pose) for at least 2 minutes.